Most of we pretend to belief that we are helpless to be successful in our life. We bring so many reasons for this and some of them are our life circumstances such as country, age, job, race, gender .... However, if we can open our inner eyes, as a human being we all are already equipped with our own intuition to be guided towards the good ones and to be away from the bad ones. No matter where we are, who we are, at what life circumstances we are etc. But the problem is we have no will and intention to give focus up on our own intuition.

Rather whenever we face some small or big challenges or questions in our life, we intended to surf into internet and social media. We also tend to deal with someone who is our equivalent or even below us. That is the wrong way we do frequently. For one it is very unlikely to get the real solution out of that. Second, they will not be with us throughout our life. We are the only one to be with us forever. So, it worth a lot to train ourselves to face and solve that our own challenges and question. 

The good thing about being dependable on oneself is that once if we are skilled to get guidance with our own intuition, we can be our own coach which is said to be self-coaching. In addition, there are also many other people facing the same challenges we are skilled to solve by ourselves. Therefore, we will have the chance to solve their challenges and we can enable them to solve their challenges too! And I hope you know what it means to solve others challenge and enable them to solve themselves.

Therefore, we need to train ourselves to get inner guidance for any of our small and big challenges and questions that come to our life. Hereafter, what we can do while we tackle with such small or big challenges and/or questions is we can keep ourselves into a bit quite space and being detached from anything external. We just take ourselves the only responsible person to face and solve that challenge and question. 

One fact here is that we have to face that loneliness, the other challenge during such a time. Then soon or later, we will start feeling comfortable to do so. That is the foundation of sustainable successful life journey. The more we practice doing so, the higher the probability to be self-help and self-dependent. That is the awesome part of life.  I really enjoy it doing so and I hope you will be too!

So, please join me in solving our own problems and being self dependable from right now onward in your life. Start collapsing the illusion of time i.e., eliminate procrastination by taking action the moment you understand something worthy instantly.


If you have comments, question, additional ideas, you are very welcome!